A few days ago someone in nursing school told me they’d never stay “just a nurse” and that they would 100% go on to get their NP degree. Then, I got in my car today and saw this picture

Recently, a fellow nursing student expressed to me their determination to never remain “just a nurse,” asserting that they would undoubtedly pursue a Nurse Practitioner degree. Today, as I entered my car, I was reminded of my own past mindset through a photograph. In the image on the left, I was filled with enthusiasm, having just completed my education and eager to embrace the nursing profession. I exhibited a degree of pride, readily sharing my intentions to avoid being “just a nurse.” Fast forward nearly two years, and I am beginning to grasp the significance of that phrase. My sleep is scarce, personal grooming has become a distant memory, and I find myself awake while others rest. I am away from home three out of seven nights, even as a newlywed, which sometimes makes me question my role as a wife. Additionally, I have had to forgo getting my nails done. While these challenges may simply reflect the realities of adulthood, the individual in the photograph was unprepared for such responsibilities. The realities of life have struck me with considerable force. Nevertheless, I have also gained invaluable insights about life and nursing over the past two years.

• I am committed to providing care for everyone, regardless of their background.
• I will not pass judgment on your past actions, particularly during or prior to your pregnancy; instead, I will care for you with compassion, emulating the love of Jesus.
• I am willing to assist with the physical demands of your care, including cleaning up after you when you first stand post-delivery.
• If you find yourself unable to sleep, I will be there to converse with you for as long as necessary, even if it is the middle of the night and I have yet to complete my documentation.
• I will share in your tears when your baby is transferred to the NICU, when the cause of your child’s distress remains unclear, and when your suffering feels overwhelming.
• I will reach out to the physician on your behalf at 3:30 AM, even if I am trembling inside from having already woken them twice.

I will serve as your hairstylist, your server, your childcare provider, your cleaner, your supporter, and your closest companion, should you permit me.

I continue to work as a neonatal nurse, acquiring new knowledge each day. It is possible that I may pursue a nurse practitioner role in the future. Who can say for certain? However, one thing I am confident about is that being “just a nurse” is truly remarkable. ❤️